When going to the toilet
- A “semi-squat” position helps a lot. One of the footstools that toddlers use to reach a sink is ideal, 8-12 inches high (20-30cm).
- Position this just in front of your toilet and rest your feet flat on the stool, keeping your feet and knees about one foot (30cm) apart. Lean forwards, resting your elbows on your thighs.
- Try to relax.
Breathing
- It is important not to hold your breath when trying to open your bowels. Many people are tempted to take a deep breath in and then hold their breath while trying to push. Try to avoid this.
- Sit on the toilet as described above, relax your shoulders and breathe normally. You may find it easiest to breathe in through your nose and out through your mouth.
- If you hold your breath and push this is STRAINING and tends to close your bottom more tightly. Also, if you hold your breath, you are limited in how long your can hold this and when you have to take the pressure off and breathe; you tend to be back to square one.
- If you find that you cannot help straining and holding your breath, try breathing out gently, or humming or reciting a nursery rhyme.
Pushing without Straining
- The best way to open your bowels is by using your abdominal (stomach) muscles to push. Leaning forward, supporting your elbows on your thighs and breathing gently, relax your shoulders. Make your abdominal muscles bulge outwards to “make your waist wide”. Now use these abdominal muscles as a pump to push backwards and downwards into you bottom. Keep up the gentle but firm pressure.
Relaxing the Back Passage
Putting it All Together
- Sit properly
- Breathe normally
- Push from your waist downwards
- Relax the back passage
- Keep this up for about 5 minutes, unless you have a bowel action sooner. If nothing happens, don’t give up. Try again tomorrow. It often takes several weeks of practice until this really starts to work.
Natural treatments and tips (DR Axe)